TheGirlsLife
‘Tis the season… to celebrate yourself and embrace the joy of being single! Winter can sometimes make us feel like we need a partner to enjoy all the festivities, but as an introvert with Seasonal Affective Disorder who has experienced only one winter in a relationship, I can assure you that this season is all about self-romance. After all, no one knows you better than yourself! So why not treat yourself during these colder months? Whether it’s buying yourself a holiday present, indulging in extra self-care, or going on solo dates, there are countless ways to show yourself some love.
From December’s winter solstice to those slushy late-winter days in March, it’s important to spend quality time with the person who has always been there for you: YOU. Remember that enjoying winter doesn’t require a partner; you can have just as much fun on your own. Here are eight solo date ideas for the wintertime that will create wonderful memories:
1. Take yourself ice skating:
Embrace this classic winter activity and enjoy the physicality of ice skating on a chilly afternoon. Bundle up in your cutest winter accessories and skate around the rink at your own pace. Treat yourself to a cup of hot cocoa afterward.
2. Walk around to look at holiday lights:
Don’t hesitate to explore neighborhoods known for their extravagant holiday decorations or visit local attractions like zoos or botanical gardens adorned with festive lights. Put on your favorite playlist of holiday songs while strolling and immerse yourself in the holiday spirit.
3. Make baked goods to give others:
Continue heartwarming traditions by baking your favorite treats and sharing them with neighbors, coworkers, and friends. This solo activity allows you to connect with others while embracing human connection during the winter months.
4. Have a dedicated journaling session for New Year’s resolutions:
Set aside time alone (preferably with tea and candles) to plan and set goals for the upcoming year. Embrace the discomfort of introspection and envision your personal and career aspirations. Your future self will appreciate this thoughtful reflection.
5. Spend a day reading in a coffee shop or library:
Curl up with a book, one of the ultimate introvert activities, but take it up a notch by heading to a cozy coffee shop or beautiful library. Enjoy the ambiance while immersing yourself in captivating stories. This low-cost or free date idea can become part of your regular self-care routine.
6. Visit a sex shop or lingerie store:
Embrace February’s sexy vibes by venturing into a sex shop alone. The exposure therapy alone is empowering, leaving you feeling confident and mysterious. Purchasing something is optional, but treating yourself to something sexy can add an extra boost of confidence.
7. Go to a movie theater:
Treat yourself to an impromptu solo movie date without any prior planning required! Escape the chilly weather and enjoy some peace while watching one of the many great films released during the winter months. Grab your favorite movie theater snacks for an indulgent experience.
8. Take yourself out for a fancy dinner:
Who says fancy restaurants are only for couples on Valentine’s Day? Make reservations, order yourself a nice drink, and dress up in an outfit that makes you feel amazing! Treat this solo dinner as if it were a special occasion because it truly is – celebrating your awesomeness!
Remember, winter is not just about romantic love; it’s also about self-love and appreciation for who you are as an individual. So go ahead and make this season all about embracing your own company, creating unforgettable memories, and cherishing every moment spent with yourself!
